Today I saw Don Jon, starring Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Scarlett Johansson.
Jon (Gordon-Levitt) is an east-coast bartender who likes his family, his church, his ladies and his porn. Barbara (Johansson) is a sexy girl who knows exactly what she wants in a man. When the two meet, sparks fly and Jon respects her in a way he doesn't respect other women.
They wait over a month to sleep together—a true testament to how much Jon likes Barbara—and he promises to quit watching porn at her request.
By all accounts, she makes him a better man: she has him enroll in night school to hopefully advance his career, she teaches him the virtue of patience, he remains faithful to her.
However, his porn addiction doesn't go away; he merely hides it.
The desire to watch porn consumes him so much that he watches on his cell phone as he's driving, attending class, etc. and absolves himself of the guilt by admitting his problem each week during confession.
It's not until a classmate, Esther (Julianne Moore), befriends him that he realizes his addiction to porn stems from his inability to truly connect to his partner. And there are reasons that come clear as to why that connection isn't happening.
In the midst of a lot (and I do mean a lot) of boobs and thrusts, this film reveals a sweet, honest message about a character who's slimy enough to be annoying, but decent enough to be endearing.
All of the actors are first-rate and cast to perfection. An absolute pleasure to watch.
If the topic of sex doesn't offend you, you'll enjoy spending 90 minutes in this true-to-life world.